I am beyond tired...wanna throw up in my mouth tired, of all the dudes coming out writing books about how women should behave. Stop that shit, already! Tyrese Gibson...boy have SEVERAL seats, please. You and the Reverend Run. Today would be nice. Steve Harvey and his Think Like a Man bullshit. Ain't he the same one who cheated on his wife and wifed up the one he speaks so highly of now? He got his dick wet with the mistress, and she was just as bad for bedding somebody's husband. Not just their sometime lover, boyfriend, etc. No, she laid down with that woman's husband and there they are now, a self-proclaimed, power couple. GTFOH. But women are hanging on his every word. Yeah, okay. Not this one.

 Anyway, I was watching Think Like a Man the other day and I think it was Megan Good's character that was on the whole 90-day waiting period. They flashed to Steve Harvey referencing his days at Ford Motor company and how when he worked there, a 90-day probationary period was in place. Yeah, yeah. That's just about everywhere (some places 6 months, some even a year). After that time passes, the employee is, "all in," right? Benefits kick in, you come off this period of "we're watching you...just not as closely". The ropes are lessened.

 So now, here comes the fass ass in me. I love sex. Wait, let me reiterate. I love good sex. I don't wait no damn 90-day nothing to see if the dick is good. I'm not into that. Wait...that's not true. I did it once and that's why I don't no more!

I need to know up front. For me, sex is a form of communication. I firmly believe that, and if our bodies can't effectively communicate, then we have nothing beyond that. Now many will disagree with me and feel that holding out for that 90 days will get them the gold. Let's ask Joan Clayton how that worked out for her, or Charlotte York, for that matter. Yeah, they're fictional characters, but trust and believe there are many of that type who feel that position is the best position. I would be hard pressed to stay with a man who after 90-days failed to deliver in the bedroom, kitchen, shower...or wherever. Poor sex just doesn't cut it. You make me wait, there better be a GRAND finale.

 In my opinion, there are ways to go about that. For one, women need to stop being so, "all in" in the beginning anyway. Women go into most situations with the white picket fence on the brain. Trying to please, with less focus on being pleased. Slow ya roll! Please, slow ya roll. That's the time you want to do what Mr. Potato Head Steve Harvey told you - Think Like a Man.

 Maybe because I'm about a full body experience, I can operate in this way. My full body experience begins with a man being able to seduce my mind. Only when he is able to seduce my mind, does he gain access to my body. If we can relate in those two areas, then we are slowly making our way to a healthy, and mutually beneficial friendship.

 I'm done ranting. You get the point. I am in disagreement with the concept of waiting the 90-days. Women settle too much as it is, what good is it to wait a full 90-days for bad sex, only to settle for it for the rest of your life because you think that bad sex is worth the sacrifice as long as you maybe have a ring, or the promise of a relationship. I'll pass.

 Oh yeah...if by chance the sex is bad, then at the early stages, a woman is more likely to have an easier time communicating to that man (if she deems him worthy) that there is something missing and work toward more passionate, fulfilling, lovemaking sessions. 

~The End~